Life is all about learning. I believe I’m here on earth at this time, having this human experience, because there is much to learn.
A lesson that I seem to revisit over and over and over again is my inability to detach from people’s reactions to my choices. The fear of disappointing those I love most has resulted in disappointing the most important person of all…me.
Yes, that right. I was suffering to prevent others from suffering.
It’s a terrible way to live.
Every so often, when I’m not looking, it creeps up on me and says, “Boo!”
And when I look at my reflection, I realize that I have over committed myself to please others. I’ve compromised something I value, and I’ve allowed another to take the joy.
The good news is, it’s easy to get back on track. I simply forgive myself, express gratitude for the lesson, and gently remember to take care of my needs.
It’s your turn. I want to hear from you.
Do you ever suffer in order to please others?
Have you put your needs last on the list?
How do you get back on track?
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Much love,
Melanie